I kissed a girl and I liked it: reflections of a heteroflexible woman.

About five years ago, I got out of an on again-off again relationship with a man that would not commit but kept coming back. By the time it finally ended, I was burned out, and it took me more than a year to even consider jumping into the dating pool again. When the time finally came, I had to learn how to use dating apps, and it was not exactly a great experience. Some…