The fine line between Charming and Overbearing

There are times when we come across some person who has a really vibrant personality, can blend themselves in any group and be the center of attention in a matter of seconds.

When we see such a person we tend to feel intimidated and mostly jealous, but do we have a reason to do so. I think no.
How would you feel if you had the sun shining over your head all day and night. You tend to get sick and tired of it. It’s the same with such people. You tend to get sick of their overly charming or chirpy personality and miss a bit of calmness in the surrounding.
This is the reason all these people are left alone. They might seem like great people but maybe we can’t keep up with them.

Most of these people tend to have deep rooted family issues which becomes the cause of their attention seeking.
Now all of us seek attention and when we don’t get it, we get disappointed. But this bunch of people just can’t take rejection or denial. They come back at you too vigorously which starts getting annoying.

So the next time you see a person like that. Don’t feel insecure because it might be nice to be like them for a day or two. But in the long run, being you is just enough to achieve everything in life, from friends to success.