20 Signs That You Are Ok With the Man You Have Chosen!
Women deserve love and respect.
“Powerful women don’t explain to anyone why they deserve respect. They don’t stand by people who don’t respect them. ”- Anonymous.
All women deserve to be loved!
Did you know that true love and the excellent relationship you are looking for start with loving yourself?
There is this typical trait of fulfilled women in their relationships. These women have an inner map that helps them see clearly when their boundaries have been violated. They have a second sense of a genuine connection with a person.
Some women would not let anyone hurt them, in any way: physically or emotionally, because they love themselves more than anything. They know it’s WORTH IT!
To be loved, cherished, accepted 100% exactly as they are, to be supported and appreciated. These instincts are often acquired in childhood through the pattern received from parents or their relationship with them.
Unfortunately, many of us lack this inner map for the simple reason that we have not experienced too many moments of authentic connection in the past, and these personal stories make us wrongly decode the present relationships as well.
Suffering in love seems normal; the enormous sacrifices we make to be with a person we consider worthy of our passion seem natural. In reality, we throw ourselves into the arena of bullfighters for the simple reason that no one has told us or shown us that things could be different.
It’s true; these people are miserable. But something changes when we realize that we have the power to say “no, I don’t deserve that” and to step out of the “arena.”
Self-respect or the idea that you are good enough and deserve to be treated well is essential in a healthy value system.
When we respect ourselves, we know very well what we allow and what we do not allow on the part of others.
Jen Moff, a relationship expert, and motivational speaker, shows us the 20 signs that show we are in a healthy love relationship. These signs work the same for all types of relationships: collegiality, friendship, family relationships, etc.
Twenty signs of RESPECT that show you are good in a relationship!
Trust:
- It follows the dedication that both show in this relationship.
- Mutual acceptance and openness to each other’s points of view.
- Ability to listen without judging.
- Ability to communicate openly and honestly.
Physical Privacy:
- Request permission.
- Awareness of intimate personal space.
- Respect for the moments when the other person says “NO.”
Feeling Of Security:
- Refusal to manipulate or intimidate.
- Non-violent expression of views.
Cooperation:
- To believe, not to pretend.
- Openness to change.
- Ability to make decisions together.
- Negotiating solutions from which both can benefit.
- Ability to make decisions together.
The Feeling That You Can Base on Each Other
- Assuming mistakes.
- Accept responsibility for your relationship’s behavior, attitudes, and values.
- Trust that you can say whatever you have in mind.
Mutual Support
- Support for everyone’s choices.
- Mutual understanding and empathy.
- Respect and value the different opinions that appear.
