5 Traits That All Unshakeable People Have

Amy Tang
Live Your Life On Purpose
4 min readOct 21, 2020

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“They know that they are not the smartest, hottest, or most creative person alive — and they don’t care.”

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Have you ever met someone who was unshakeable?

Unshakeable people who are confident but humble, adventurous but sensible, successful but not too intimidating. We all admire them and secretly want to steal some of their charm.

But what does this charm consist of? In my experience, there are five traits of unshakeable people that make them so attractive.

Security of Self

Unshakeable people do not let other people’s opinions affect them.

It is not that they are unable to change, but rather that they do not feel the need to adapt to every single person’s image of them.

They are adaptable, but they adapt for their own reasons.

They take into consideration the opinions of close friends and family but ultimately choose whether or not to apply these critiques.

Unshakeable people trust themselves.

They know that another person’s perception of them is just a guess. They understand that the unnecessary opinion from another person is simply a reflection of the person distributing the judgment.

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Amy Tang
Live Your Life On Purpose

Dedicated to helping others live fuller lives and reconnect with themselves. 1% better every day.