8 Signs You are in Abusive Relationship

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The two words ‘LOVE and MARRIAGE’ are beautiful aspects of life.

Not every love has marriage, not every marriage has love.

In your life journey, True Love is very difficult to find.

If at all it’s found, whether it will reach Marriage is the next big thing to achieve.

Then that marriage has Love & Respect in it forever is another thing to achieve.

It’s painful if any one of them is not working. But more painful is :-

• If you get cheated.
• The person turns out to be a total stranger in a bad way.
• The relationship is physically or emotionally abusive.

The only way of getting rid of all mentioned above pains — get out of that relationship immediately.

Do not I repeat do not think he/she will improve or change. It never happens.

If toxic action happened 1st time or 5th time, it will happen the 100th time as well and the count will go on and on.

Always look for red flags and do not ignore them.

For the first few times you can choose not to react but don’t ignore them.

Keep them in mind and raise your antenna 🗼a little higher so as not to miss any important red flags.

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Red flags of the relationship:-

1. Beware of the person who doesn’t have principles, or morals because they are not gonna respect yours.
2. If he/she doesn’t have time for you at all now, they will have time for you never.
3. If he/she thinks of himself/herself better than you but not as equal. Run!!! 🔜
4. Doesn’t respect you, your choices and your work.
5. Before taking any important decision never discuss it with you. Decisions regarding family and your life.
6. Never there for you in your sickness, bad times or to support you.
7. Person is physically abusive towards you.
8. He/ She blames you for everything. There is always something wrong with you and other person is never ever at fault. Finger is always pointing towards you. That’s emotional abuse.

If you are in a bad relationship, get out of it immediately however painful it feels.

Love is blind but don’t become dumb, deaf and common sense blind.

Going out from a relationship will be painful for few days but being in a bad relationship will be painful always and forever.