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Do It — Because It is Hard

Why you should make the choice to do the hard things, and avoid the rush hour on Easy Street

Jill Reid
Jill Reid
Jan 16, 2020 · 2 min read

Words most of us find difficult to live by.

Why?

Because more often than not, the alternative is so much easier.

We can coast along through life, avoiding a lot of the difficult challenges and problems.

It doesn’t take as much effort.

Unfortunately, it’s the easy choice to make, especially with others encouraging us to follow the crowd, to fall in line and simply do what we’re told.

No effort, no thinking, no decisions. Just follow the leader like lemmings to the sea, and let someone else deal with the hard stuff.

There’s a lot of company on Easy Street.

And it makes the hard road truly less traveled.

But those who choose it recognize the value — and rewards — of choice, independence, and finding a better way for themselves.

They also know the end result is more likely to bring meaning and satisfaction to their lives.

Choosing the hard road means learning the importance of persistence — of not giving up at the first sign of difficulty.

Those who take it may stop to rest and recharge, but they keep going, knowing the alternative — giving up — often means looking back on their life with regret, lamenting the choices they made or wishing they had taken action instead of procrastinating until the opportunity had passed them by.

All of us have the ability to choose.

We can follow the easy road with the crowd, or travel the hard road with others who refuse to settle for the mediocre, the average, the ordinary.

Making the choice — to take the hard road — allows us to realize and appreciate the advantages that come from associating with those who also decided to follow their dreams, enjoying the benefit that comes from the truth of associationan enduring success principle from Jim Rohn that states,

You’re The Average Of The Five People You Spend The Most Time With — Jim Rohn

It’s never too late to walk a different path.

Simply ask yourself which road carries the most promise for achieving your goals and fulfilling your dreams.

And whose company would you rather have with you as you enjoy the journey?

Do it — because it is hard.

© 2020 Jill Reid. All Rights Reserved.

Jill Reid is the author of Real Life: We breathe, We sleep, We eat … And in-between, We Live

Jill Reid is the founder of Pathway to Personal Growth and author of Real Life . Her books and articles explore life, happiness, self-improvement, health, productivity, relationships, and personal success strategies.

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Author of “Real Life” & “Discover Your Personal Truth” | Writing on life, relationships, happiness, health, & personal success — http://RealLifeBookSeries.com

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Author of “Real Life” & “Discover Your Personal Truth” | Writing on life, relationships, happiness, health, & personal success — http://RealLifeBookSeries.com

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