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Do You Ever Feel Like All Eyes Are On You?

Effective ways of dealing with the spotlight effect

Back a couple of weeks ago — during simpler days — my family was on vacation in Aruba. My dad and I were enjoying some relaxation time near our hotel, with few cares on our minds. As we lay by the pool, soaking in the afternoon sunlight, he turned to me with a question that I was not expecting from him:




Get Purpose. Get Perspective. Get Passion.

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Alison Schaffir

Alison Schaffir

Young Adult Author of YOUR DREAM FOR ME (March 2023) | Rep’d by Birch Literary | NYC-Based Social Media Strategist | Twitter: @ASchaffir

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