Emotional Intelligence Is Not About Being ‘Nice’

It’s being assertive with how you feel, even if it won’t please others.

Photo by Priscilla Du Preez on Unsplash

One of the common misconceptions I get is that emotional intelligence is about how to be nice to people.

It’s actually the opposite of that. Not in a mean or destructive way, but in a more assertive way that doesn’t allow others (or your…



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