I’m 30, It’s 2020, And I’ve Been Misled

Life doesn’t happen for you

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My dad was 30 when my mom had me.

So you already know I’m feeling all types of ways looking at my life, single as f***.

I thought by 30, I’d also have my life altogether. I’d be safe and secure enough to be married, to have a kid, to feel confident in my career path.

Nope.

It’s also almost the end of 2020 and we still have so many social, political, economical, mental, emotional, and spiritual instability in the world right now.

You’d think we’d have this shit figured out by now, right? Nope.

Needless to say, I’ve been misled in what my life was supposed to look like by now.

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