Right now is the goal
By Avantika
Whenever I think about goal there are two things that come up to my mind..
- Should I hurry towards the goal because whatever time I have is very little.
- Or should I let the process of attaining the goal be an effortless play.
But what if I can combine both these thoughts…
THE TECHNIQUE TO DO THIS IS FEMININE MIND
All females are not necessarily feminine, and all males are not necessarily masculine, so when I say a feminine mind, I don’t mean females.
A feminine mind means a mind that can surrender, that can be receptive like a womb, that can be open and passive.
Half of the humanity can be of this type, but the other half is totally opposite.
As man and woman are the two halves of humanity, in just the same way the feminine mind and the masculine mind are the two halves of the human mind.
Just like a woman: even if she is in love, she will not take the initiative.
And if a woman takes the initiative, you have every reason to be afraid and escape, because that attitude is the male attitude-in the feminine body there is masculine mind, and you will be in difficulty.
If you are really male, immediately the woman will lose attraction. If you are feminine — male in body but feminine in mind — only then you can allow the woman to take initiative and you will be happy.
A woman will wait.
She will never utter the words “I love you” before you have uttered them and you have committed yourself.
In the very waiting is the FEMININE POWER.
The male mind is aggressive(no offence).
It has to do something.
It has to move and go and take initiative.
If you have an aggressive mind, a male mind, effort is necessary.
Then make hurry: then don’t lose time and opportunity.Then create an urgency and crisis so that you put all your being into your effort.
When your effort has become total you will achieve. If your mind is feminine, then there is no hurry at all.
There is no time.
You may or may not have observed that women have no sense of time — they cannot have(and try it, this is the most useful thing you can have because when you combine goal or any other thing with time, stress will find a way to come to you).
So the husband is standing outside the house and he is honking the horn and saying, “Come down!”
And the wife says, “I have told you a thousand times that I am coming in one minute.
Continuously for two hours I have been telling you that I am coming in one minute.
So don’t get mad.
Why are you honking the horn?”(Practically proved..u may have been seeing this from childhood. I still am!)
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