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Temporary Fix Or Real Change?

“You find peace not by rearranging the circumstances of your life, but by realizing who you are at the deepest level.” -Eckhart Tolle

Dena G. Warfield
Live Your Life On Purpose
7 min readJul 24, 2019

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Introduction

We have all been taught that negative emotions or feelings such as stress, worry, fear, despair, feelings of abandonment, feeling overwhelmed, helpless, etc. are bad. But are they? Do they have a God-given purpose?

Connie in Coach Gary’s Office

Connie sat in Gary’s waiting room. She had religiously done the assignments he had given her. She felt better for a while but it didn’t seem to last.

She was still very unhappy. Her life hadn’t changed any. She was still alone, working this little boutique and watching people from the window. As she watched the couple’s on the Square her loneliness came back with even more force.

Yes, she realized that she had accepted her mother’s belief that all men were users, but why does that matter?

Why Does It Matter?

As with physical pain, if we don’t have any discomfort or pain, how would we know there is a problem?

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Dena G. Warfield
Live Your Life On Purpose

Writing about ADHD from a non-ADHD perspective. Using a MA in Human Behavior, Life Coaching and personal experience. Illustrated by fictionalized stories. DenaG