Do You Scream Desperate to a Potential Partner?
How your behaviour could be stopping you from getting a relationship.
Ask the majority of people and they will tell you that desperation is a turn-off. In fact, it will often make the best of people run for the hills. Why? Because it is uncomfortable to be around and comes across as unauthentic.
A potential partner can sense desperation in the same way a sniffer dog can detect contraband, and it is very unpleasant to be on the receiving end. It can also be seen as an imperfection and a sign of weakness.
If you are looking for a relationship, the following signs of desperation are things that you should consider avoiding.
1. Conversations
Conversations are great, but if you are bringing up the topic of marriage and children too early, this will likely be seen as a red flag. During the first few dates, you should be getting to know the person to see if they are right for you.
Another sign of desperation is being a “yes” person. Being too agreeable is not what people want. You are allowed to have your own opinion, and people will respect you more for saying what you really think. People enjoy hearing other peoples’ points of view, and it is an attractive quality to be able to express…
