The Naughty-Nice Secrets of Women

Just about every woman has a sexy kink.

Kim Petersen
Living Out Loud
Published in
8 min readAug 18, 2021

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It is simpler for a man to ask for or even take what he wants in bed.

When a man wants to switch sex positions, he flips his lover over. If he wants a blowjob, he will subtly guide his lover in the right direction until he gets one. Maybe a threesome is on his wish list — He’ll not-so-subtly suggest it after a few drinks one night.

Even if his woman balks at the idea, at least he has expressed his wants and desires.

When it comes to sex, that’s how most men are cabled.

Right?

There is a close link between sex and desire and the mind and emotional connection for a woman. On the other hand, sex and desire begin in men’s bodies due to the massive amounts of testosterone coursing through them, pushing and driving them toward sexual expression.

Even so, most guys probably have one or two things they feel a little bit shy to bring up.

Maybe a guy gets turned on by something he watches in porn but will never mention, or perhaps feels guilty or ashamed for liking something he feels is inappropriate, wishing he didn’t find it as hot as he does.

We all have our secrets.

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Kim Petersen
Living Out Loud

Award-winning & Bestselling Author | HH Prac. (Hol.Meta.Heal) | Writing About Soul. Love. Humor. Spirituality. Life. Relationships | https://kimpetersen.com.au/