A truly happy marriage belongs only to such a woman
How to be a happy woman
The happiness of a marriage depends mostly on the personalities of the two people and whether the three views are in harmony. From falling in love to entering the palace of marriage, the love gradually transforms into family affection. The passion of loving each other is lost, but there is more mutual affection between the two. So, what kind of woman does a good marriage belong to? The following two married women’s stories tell you: A truly happy marriage belongs to such a woman only.
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My friend Lili is a woman with a very good temper. My evaluation of her is a heartless person. I have known her for many years. In my impression, she has never been angry for anything. Look at everything in particular. I remember that we went for an internship together. The internship unit arranged a dormitory for us, but it didn’t take long before the dormitory had no place to live due to the demolition.
At that time, the three of us girls were unfamiliar with their lives and were looking for houses everywhere. The other girl and I were particularly worried. Lili was always smiling. I said, you don’t worry about sleeping on the street either. However, she said that the three of us should be together to sleep, and it would be nice to have someone as a company. What she said, the girl and I have no temper.
When we were together, she was always happy. The girl and I resigned one after another because of the complicated interpersonal relationship of the intern unit, and the three parted ways. Later, because she was not in the same city, she did not contact so frequently, but Lili had always been in the internship unit and never changed her job.
02
After getting married and having children, I was even more busy, and I had less contact with Lili. Once, I went on a business trip to Lili’s city, and we met each other. Seeing Lili’s family of three happily and happily, I was extremely happy, I said enviously, you are really stupid and blessed to marry such a good husband. Lili smiled and said, yes, that’s good.
We talked for a long time. Lili talked about her marriage. She said that her mother-in-law disagreed at first, and it was very bad for her, but she always endured it and was very filial to her mother-in-law. It was also difficult for her husband to start a business at the beginning, and it was very difficult for her to sell the family. All of them are sold, and life is tight. Fortunately, everything passed. After the baby was born, the mother-in-law’s attitude toward her changed, and her husband’s business became more formal, and life gradually improved.
After returning from a business trip, I also said to my husband with emotion that Lili’s personality is really good, she looks silly, she has made achievements in her work, and her marriage is also very happy. She is a typical big wise and foolish. It didn’t take long before I received a call from Lili, saying that there was new development in Hangzhou, and the family moved in, and the days are really prospering.
03
Let me talk about my colleague Dairis. She is a company executive, very capable, resolute and vigorous, and the husband she is looking for is very handsome, but the job is not very good, just a small employee, with a meager salary, much worse than Deris. Some people gossiping behind their backs, saying that this man must be Tudai Lisi’s money.
But Dairis often praised her husband for being excellent in front of outsiders, but she didn’t have the right opportunity. Later, Dai Lisi found someone to arrange her husband’s job, but she didn’t tell her husband.
After that, she often encouraged her husband, saying that this company must have seen his shining point, and must work hard, and don’t let down the company’s cultivation of him. Her husband worked very hard, and finally achieved a step-by-step promotion entirely on her own.
The two people play in harmony. Dairis always keeps her status as a little woman in front of her husband. Her husband takes good care of her. She is not allowed to do the work at home. She is very fond of her, and will give her no matter how big the festival is. Prepare for holiday surprises.
Later, the two had children, and the family of three was very sweet. Whenever you see their family, their joy can infect you.
04
A woman who is tolerant, careless, and has a strong sense of happiness will most likely have a very good marriage. Because she can tolerate all bad things, she doesn’t care about many small things otherwise, she is easily satisfied, and she will naturally have more happiness.
A woman who is self-reliant and self-reliant, knows how to give face to her husband, and knows that she is weak in front of her husband, and men are naturally more willing to pay for her. Moreover, such a woman does not have the sense of crisis of divorce, because she has the ability to live on her own and does not completely rely on men, so she will not have too much psychological pressure and will often live happily.
Really good marriages often belong to such a woman, do you too? Happiness mostly belongs to this kind of woman, the tolerant woman, and the self-reliant woman.
