Ten tips before getting married
Unless you decide not to get married, it’s better to take a look
1. Try to marry yourself before the age of thirty.
It’s not that you can’t marry after thirty, but the choice is relatively small.
If you have not reached thirty and you feel that your boyfriend is poor, you can slowly observe whether he has potential and whether he can bring you a sense of security after marriage.
If you’re over thirty, don’t think about it so much. If your boyfriend is poor, he will wait until you are thirty, otherwise, why not find a young and beautiful one in his early twenties.
2. Don’t marry, all women who marry basically end in tragedy.
I’m talking about getting married here because I hope you can evaluate yourself objectively and have a clear position on yourself.
Don’t make a monthly salary of 3,000, and feel like you are an 18-year-old fairy after you are over 40.
Getting married does not mean that the other party earns less money than you, but that your growth environment and living environment cannot be too different. In particular, the concept of money should be similar.
3. Look for someone with the same educational background and age as yours.
Conflicts of education and age in marriage are irreconcilable. Remember that academic qualifications are equivalent. If you are a junior college student, you can find an undergraduate degree, but not try to find a doctoral student.
4. Let him take you to meet his parents.
And then you have to observe how his parents get along. Because his parents' attitude towards each other is his attitude towards you after marriage.
5. You must have a rational understanding of marriage and men.
Don’t be self-righteous, think you are beautiful and in good shape. You have to know and admit that Bill Clinto and Thompson are really excellent and have no problem with character.
Ninety percent of the men in the country have reached their height, and their private lives are more messy than the two of them. Just because you can attract other men does not mean that you can attract a tired boyfriend.
6. Can quarrel, don’t cold war.
Don’t have an overnight hatred. I have seen too many women break up because of anger, and then their boyfriend married someone else a few months later. In the end, I have been regretting it, what’s the use.
7. When you have a choice, choose a man who can show you the world.
That is, when you are with him, you will find that your world becomes bigger because of him, rather than getting smaller and smaller. If you find that you can be yourself completely in this relationship, then this man really needs to take good care of it.
8. You can have no money to fall in love, but not to get married.
It’s not that you have to be too rich, but that you have financial security at least during your pregnancy and childbirth. If your boyfriend has no money, don’t get married if you don’t have money. Otherwise, after marriage, you will cheat because your husband has no money and you don’t know what to do.
9. You must live together before marriage.
This point is not explained. (Not necessarily sexual intercourse)
10. The most important things
The most important things to communicate before marriage are the following three things: money, lifestyle, and children.
