The true growth of a person is the acceptance of imperfection and incompleteness.
Accepting the world can make you happy.
On the road of growth, you have to learn to grasp the things that can be changed, but also learn to accept the things that cannot be changed.
1. Accept yourself.
When you encounter problems and setbacks, you must face your true self bravely, accept all your emotions, and no longer regret, anxiety, pain, and entanglement.
The inability to accept the true self is the source of our suffering and the source of all kinds of problems. It is difficult to accept the true self, but there are ways.
First of all, you must be aware of your own attitude towards yourself, not the attitude of others towards you. For example, when you make a mistake, you are more tolerant and encouraging, or more accusing and suppressing.
Second, stop blaming yourself when you realize you are blaming yourself. When we become aware, it becomes possible to stop.
Finally, try to treat yourself in a different way, to affirm your emotions, to affirm what you do well.
Only when you can take the above three steps can you truly accept yourself.
2. Accept others.
Everyone is different, everyone has a position, everyone has their own difficulties, and everyone sees the world from different angles.
To accept others is to know how to be considerate of others, to be considerate of others, to understand others’ difficulties, and to accept others’ imperfections.
Forgiving others is letting go of yourself. You are who you are, it doesn’t matter what others think of you, it doesn’t matter what others say about you. The important thing is to live well.
What others say and do has nothing to do with us, because we have no ability to stop others’ actions and don’t pay for others’ mistakes. If you’re going to get angry at what other people say and do, then you’re a fool to be punished for others.
The most important thing in life is the mood. In a good mood, everything is fine. So no matter who we meet, no matter what they do, don’t be angry for them. This is the real skill of living.
3. Accept the world.
The world is complex and changing. The world will not become what everyone wants, so accepting the world is the greatest wisdom in life.
Acceptance is the most important homework in your life. On the way of growth, you have to learn to accept it calmly, let it go, be brave, and live the rest of your life!
Everything is viewed from a different angle, and there will be different opinions. Sometimes understanding is different, the result is not the same, we have to learn to empathize. Everyone’s understanding is subjective, and sometimes even misunderstands the good intentions of others.
In life, you should empathize more, change your perspective, learn to understand, and find the beautiful side of life. When you encounter trouble, just change your thinking and change your mentality. Adjust your mentality and change your perspective, and the result will be completely different.
Some trifles, do not need to care about, it will be annoying; some trivial matters, do not need to care, care will be tiring; open-minded life, broad-minded, forgive mistakes, and live calmly.
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