What behaviors of the wife make the husband feel the most sad?
Married women had better not do these three things.
Everyone wants a perfect relationship, and hopes to have a love that “even if the white head is not separated”, but love also requires two people to operate together. If one party fails to manage it, cracks will eventually occur.
It is not easy to fall in love for a long time, and it is even more difficult to get married. Since they are together, the two should cherish it. Both men and women should change their behavior slightly. For the other party to lose a little bit of his original self, learn more to think in empathy and stand on the other side’s standpoint, so that we can be together better.
Many women complain that men don’t love themselves anymore, and getting married is like a different person. As everyone knows, everything has a destiny and there is a cause, and his change may be because of you. If you do something that cannot be done between husband and wife, then you may bury hidden dangers in your emotional path, which will erupt one day. Between husband and wife, it is best for a woman not to do these things that hurt her husband.
1. Untrusive, sneer
Women often accumulate enough disappointment to say “Let’s get a divorce” to you. This may be a trivial matter, but it became the last straw that crushed him. Nine out of ten women who often yell for divorce are just talking about divorce. They just use it to scare you, but when they say it, it comes true.
From the beginning of his nervousness and indifference, isn’t this a change in his mental state? His heart is hurt by you again and again, and maybe one day when you say divorce, he will answer you, “Okay.” Behind every successful man, there must be a woman who knows how to be considerate and understand. In the life of a couple, men also encounter difficulties and setbacks. At this time, they most need the support and understanding of their wives.
2. Uncontrolled comparison
Any comparisons that are not based on reality are meaningless, and they will spur others’ ambitions and destroy their own prestige. Maybe someone still has money in the family, so her husband loves her, and he doesn’t lack money, because they have capital. You ask your husband to earn one hundred thousand a month.
Why don’t you think he can marry you if he has this ability? There is no perfect person, no matter how good a man is, he will still be inferior to others in some aspects. A man’s self-esteem is very strong. If you often criticize him like this, I believe he will be very heartbroken.
There will be a sense of frustration in the heart of the woman who is loved by all kinds of rebuke and dislike, so what motivation and confidence does he have to make progress. All men and women need is encouragement and praise. Maybe he will praise you often, and you also need to discover his shining points and give him some support and comfort.
3. Treat his mother as an enemy
Many women will be more anxious to declare their sovereignty after marrying their in-laws, so that they can have the supreme status. They often deliberately instruct their husbands to do things in front of their mother-in-law, but this behavior is the most uncomfortable for her mother-in-law.
After going back and forth like this, the war between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has intensified, and the situation of men has become very difficult. It is often the small things that you don’t care about, leaving a mark in the other person’s heart. When his heart accumulates enough resentment, it will become a big explosion on the day of the explosion.
Honoring your parents is the greatest kindness. If a man is not even filial, then what is he worthy of your love? So since he is filial and his favorite woman scolds his parents, what will he feel in his heart? On the eternal topic of family relationship and love, there is no reason.
He loves his parents and you, but if you hurt his heart too much, how will he choose to believe that a woman will understand in his heart? If you want a man to love you more, you must first learn to love him and his parents. If you often scold his parents, I believe his dissatisfaction with you is slowly accumulating.
Of course, whether it is a woman or a man, you must pay attention to whether you will harm each other’s behavior. The most important thing in a relationship is to understand and tolerate each other, so that family harmony will flourish.
