Why is it so difficult to fall in love and get married now?
Ideal and reality are difficult to balance
There are actually quite a few problems with young people’s views on marriage and love. Always shouting not to believe in love or marriage, while eager for it. Really falling in love, and fearful; when it comes to marriage, it becomes reality immediately, and various interests are balanced and calculated. This seems to be a common phenomenon at present.
Why is this so? Some media have certain responsibilities for deliberate propaganda. In addition, most of the young people nowadays are only children, and the family conditions are not bad, which is not a gem in the eyes of their parents. Many people have not even learned how to get along with others, so even falling in love is difficult.
Because no one will treat you unconditionally like your parents.
Many people’s views on love are expecting that their love should resemble idol dramas and romance novels, which is just a conjecture. If even ordinary interpersonal communication finds it difficult, it is even more difficult to fall in love.
There are also many people who feel that those who love themselves understand me without saying, that’s unrealistic. The tacit understanding between people is the experience accumulated in a normal relationship, and love at first sight is not common. Even if there is, it is not reliable. Life and movies are two different things.
Nowadays, many people who create confrontation between men and women on the Internet deliberately use material wealth, freedom and childbirth as topics to create opposition to harvest traffic. More and more young people talk about realistic conditions when they talk about marriage.
Why is this? What a netizen said is more reasonable. Regarding the bride's price, the amount the man is willing to pay is directly proportional to the satisfaction of the woman; while the amount the woman asks for is inversely proportional to the satisfaction of the man.
Regarding childbirth, I can only say that if the woman loves her partner, she is willing to give birth to him; while the man loves her partner, she is willing to give everything to him. This is human nature, the instinct from ancient times to the present. If you don’t want it, it only means that you don’t love it enough.
The main problem with love and marriage now is that the two parties do not trust each other. If there is no trust, what kind of love can we talk about? !
