I’d Like to Have Sex With a Woman

But I’m not willing to let my husband have the same opportunity

Danika Bloom
Jun 11, 2019 · 9 min read
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In 2005, my professional and personal lives collided.

And her answers made polyamory sound so… smart.

So… normal.

So… mature.

Married couples only have sex with each other.

Sex with someone who is not your spouse is called an affair.

People who have affairs are lying, cheating, good-for-nothings who we shun and stop inviting to parties.

Emotional Intimacy

Intellectual Intimacy

Experiential Intimacy

Spiritual Intimacy

Physical Intimacy

Sexual Intimacy

Being a woman who loves many women and just one man

And I don’t feel like I’d be cheating on my partner since having sex with a female friend would not take anything away from my sexual experiences with him.

Love and Stuff

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Danika Bloom

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Romance author. Speaker of things best not said in polite company. My books on Amazon: amazon.com/author/danikabloom

Love and Stuff

Conversation-starters about sex, relationships, family & more from Danika Bloom

Danika Bloom

Written by

Romance author. Speaker of things best not said in polite company. My books on Amazon: amazon.com/author/danikabloom

Love and Stuff

Conversation-starters about sex, relationships, family & more from Danika Bloom

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