Most Women Don’t Actually Have Rape Fantasies
We want ravishment, not violation
Some of my favorite porn scenes feature women who resist. They pull away. They’re reluctant. They’re pushed or cajoled into having sex.
They’re scenarios involving innocent babysitters being seduced by the man of the house.
Or sleepover scenes where the dirty uncle or pervy older brother slips into a girl’s bed and starts touching her.
And of course, girls stuck in dryers, window frames, or just about anywhere — ass out, begging for help, but getting manhandled and fucked instead.
Even though I get off to those kinds of scenes and get turned on by imagining myself in similar ones, I never identified as someone who has rape fantasies.
My mind loves playing on the edge of boundaries, but it never goes beyond dubious consent or consensual non-consent.
I figured my dirty daydreams must be tame compared to what other women fantasize about because I’ve heard repeatedly that it’s extremely common for women to have rape fantasies, or even that most women have them.
My guess was that I couldn’t be turned on by rape scenarios because I found depictions of abuse and violation too distressing to be arousing.
