Playful Humiliation Is the Sexiest Kind of Teasing
It’s the kink I could never name
I’ve always been adamant that I’m not into sexual humiliation. But it turns out I just didn’t understand myself enough.
I was turned off by the idea of it because I get embarrassed very easily. The last thing I wanted to do was seek out more of that discomfort.
That made me feel a bit out of step with the kink world.
I’m into sexual submission. I get turned on by people who can pull off a dominant attitude. Bondage puts me in a good place and I’d love to try being someone’s rope bunny.
But I could never get off to anything that was labeled sexual humiliation. I was completely put off by the idea of being called a whore or a bitch during sex. And spitting on me with disdain or mocking my body in any way are completely off limits.
Seeing that kind of thing in porn made me uncomfortable, too.
I’m into dominance and submission. I love bondage and I find rope play completely fascinating. But whenever I came across videos that showed a performer being mocked, degraded, or insulted, I had to find something else to watch.
Instead of getting horny, I felt bad for the people on screen.