7 Signs a Girl Wants You to Chase Her
This is how we give you a green light
Some people are chasers. When they like you, they’ll pursue you. They’ll flirt aggressively. They’ll proclaim their desire for you. They’ll ask you out on a date or suggest you come back to their place at the end of the night.
I’m kind of jealous of chasers.
I’m a chasee. I’m the one who needs to be pursued and seduced. That sounds easy, but there’s a lot of frustration that comes with it.
The thing a lot of people don’t understand about chasees is that we don’t just wait around for someone to put the moves on us. We have preferences. We have certain people we’re attracted to. We have crushes. And we do something about it. It’s just that the things we do about it are subtle.
We don’t really pursue the people we like. It’s more like giving them a green light to come after us. We show them we’re open and receptive.
We still communicate our attraction, our desire, and our lust — we just do it in a different way.
Unfortunately, a lot of chasers have a hard time with that. To them, liking someone means putting the moves on them. Anything less than that doesn’t register as interest. They miss all the green lights we’re giving them because they’re looking for someone with…
