kisses should be conversations, and vice versa

The Lexicon of Lips

A kiss is a lovely trick designed by nature to stop speech when words become superfluous.” — Ingrid Bergman

A kiss is a lovely trick designed by nature to further…

love is not the only answer

Love is all you need…

With all due respect to Mr. Lennon, it’s not true. 
And there are times that I think we forget this. That there are times when love is not all you need, when, in fact, you have all love you can stomach but you still…

use the right reward to effortlessly create habits

In Search of Inbox Zero

You should see my gmail. I’ve got about ten different email addresses, between different organizations I belong to, different sites I manage, and just holdovers from past…

make life an interesting question with no answer

“What does your ink mean?

“On my shoulder? Life as an InterroBang!”

- not said by Z

Today’s entry is not so much an observation as a question. A metaphorical model, if…

owning your practice

A Rose By Any Other Name

To be sure, an ordinary passerby would think that my rose looked just like you
–the rose that belongs to me. But in herself alone she’s more important
than all the hundreds of you other roses:
because it is she that I have…

using your environment to reinforce your goals

making space sacred in your life

Life in Space

There’s been a lot of space in my life lately. Or, at least, the concept has been popping up a lot, which is a good indicator of a need to pay attention to it.

how to figure out if you should

“Somebody, somewhere, told you you were a bad guy. Or you got convinced you were a bad guy. So you spend your time trying to do the things that you think good guys do.” — Sloane Sabbith on “The Newsroom”

learn about your passion for authentic love

But that’s just putting the problem out on the table. What can you actually do about it? What are you actually offering?
 — Ali

Challenge Accepted!

maximizing your resources for love

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