Vision: #relationshipgoals

Sky high in Banff.

In a work group, there’s talk about strategic planning, long term goals, and steps to get there. But, one of the first things that you need is a vision. An overarching mile high view of what you want the group to produce or accomplish. In love, that’s #relationshipgoals.

In the last 2 years after my breakup with X, experiencing a myriad of personalities, interests, backgrounds in many, many different men, I finally have my vision, my #relationshipgoals. I’m not sure if I‘m being too picky here, but who cares — it’s a vision! Dream big!

1. Someone to be silly with
2. Someone that comes to church with me
3. Someone that can help me grapple with work, friend, and world dilemmas
4. Someone that wants to get married and wants to have a family
5. Someone that has depth, communicates this depth articulately with me, and enjoys diving into the complexities of life, analyzing them, and finding new ways to think about them
6. Someone that wants to travel to new places and discover new things with me
7. Someone that wants to constantly improve, whether it’s personal or professional
8. Someone that my friends love or have the future capacity to love
9. Someone that treats the women in his life well
10. Someone that’s smart and sharp — in something that intrigues me
11. Someone that doesn’t mind my ice cold feet under the blankets

3/2016