Vision: #relationshipgoalsIn a work group, there’s talk about strategic planning, long term goals, and steps to get there. But, one of the…
That doesn’t help me.You know the shit your friends say (or the shit you say) when something doesn’t work out with someone?“Man, she’s a bitch.”“What a trainwreck.”
Finding no fault in your flaws.I had not one but two girlfriends, back in my wilder days, who chose to love me when I was having an wicked bad acne outbreak in my mid-20s.Who gets acne in their mid-20s? I thought. Me. Lucky fucking me. I realize that it was me and many other…
Do you have Singles’ Fatigue?Online dating is sold to you as the easiest thing in the world. Is it, though?Expectation:Join the app. Create a profile. Get your matches sent to your inbox. Bam! More dates than you know what to do with.
What if you’re queer*?If you’re asking yourself the question, you probably are.Welcome to the awesomeness. Welcome to no limits. Welcome to unlimited access to more people, more opportunities, more LOVE than you knew before.
The experience of intimacyWhatever you do, try not to panic.Because it feels so weird. Incredibly uncomfortable.It is suddenly there in your throat, or your gut, that feeling that people talk about…they make it sound so easy.
The crush that healed my broken heart.I seriously felt it break apart in my chest — that thing I called a heart. Not because the love was ever really that deep(ly shared) but because it became so clear that it never had been at all. It was humbling and horrible to admit.