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I’m Sorry, You Can’t Date if You’re Naive

The truth is ugly.

I forgot that Messenger had a ‘message requests’ area.

Today, I clicked on it and saw new messages from two guys with whom I had gone on one or two dates.

They wouldn’t stop messaging me, and it’s been a few years like this. I don’t want to analyse what’s going on with them because I do not care.



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Ellen Nguyen

Freelance writer & digital creator | London based | Psychology BSc. Editor of, empowering women.