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If You Have to Use Power Plays to Feel Safe, You’re Dating the Wrong Person

A power struggle is a sign of incompatibility.

Every relationship has a power dynamic.

In healthy relationships, two partners have equal or close-to-equal power. It means that both partners have similar abilities to exert influence over the relationship, and this influence is…



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Ellen Nguyen

Freelance writer & digital creator | London based | Psychology BSc. Editor of, empowering women.