If One of These 7 Statements Applies to You, Don’t Date

The dating pool is full of undateable people — either they don’t care, or they just don’t know it yet.

Ellen Nguyen
Loveful Mind
Published in
7 min readOct 19, 2020

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Are you wondering why modern dating is so painful and makes you want to punch everyone in the face? It’s because the dating pool is full of undateable people — either they don’t care, or they just don’t know it yet.

Thanks to technology, it’s easier than ever before to connect with someone and make something happen. But what that “something” turns out to be is subject to a number of factors. Even if you’re on a dating app that’s designed specifically for marriage-minded people, it’s not guaranteed that you will end up with a spouse.

It’s all up to the single people who participate in the dating market.

In other words, it’s all up to you.

While you can’t dictate the quality and behaviours of other daters, you have control over you. It’s not unwise to make yourself as mentally fit as possible to navigate the dating world with confidence and success.

If you ever wonder whether it’s a good time for you to put yourself out there, here are 7 reasons why you might want to hold fire.

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Ellen Nguyen
Loveful Mind

Freelance writer & digital creator | London based | Psychology BSc. Editor of LovefulMind.com, empowering women.