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9 Ways to Physically Turn a Woman On in Bed
I wrote a piece about How to Turn a Woman on in Bed which was based mainly on the psychological principles of female arousal. I had a couple of people asking me to elaborate on the physical methods (I can’t blame them, after uploading the article I realised the title ‘How to turn her on in bed’ does suggest the elucidation of practical methodology).
So here’s a follow up — How to turn her on in bed — physically and practically speaking.
As I’m male I’ll be speaking from a male perspective, but anyone can generally follow the principles here. I won’t talk about consent as consent is a given. Don’t do anything without it.
1. Understand the Psychological Principles of Female Arousal
This point really can’t be understated.
You can have the best technique in the world, whether it be the way you twist your tongue or how you rhythmically thrust your hips, but they won’t be nearly as effective if you don’t understand how your partner is turned on psychologically.
So as a quick, non-exhaustive list:
- Arousal starts before sex — she needs to be relaxed & fed and feel safe & desired.