How Being Sexually Assaulted Changed My Sex Life

and how it always will.

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The first time I was sexually assaulted, I was twenty-two. I met up with a girl that I matched with on Plenty of Fish. We went to a bar that I knew was a hot spot for local bands. She picked the bar because she went there often, or so she said. She was pretty, with big brown eyes and glossy black hair. I was still pretty inexperienced dating…