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Welcome to a new year, one that I am not sure if I’m going into gleefully or with a huge amount of caution, either way, what I am ready for are some spicy new experiences. Looking back on the last year, I will say that it wasn’t my best when it came to sexual experiences. Not that I had any bad ones, but it felt like sex and being adventurous took a back seat to just trying to make it out of another year of chaos within America.
In fact, it’s been feeling like that more and more every year since the pandemic, and this is the year I just have to put a stop to it. Now that I’m in my thirties, each year feels a bit more precious. I’m in my prime, and I sure as hell don’t want to waste it, which is exactly what I’m doing if I’m spending my years surviving instead of thriving.
Thirty, Flirty, and Thriving
Thriving in my sex life is the number one thing I want to focus on in 2025. If you’ve read my previous bucket list articles, you’ll know I have a long-term partner. Having a partner who enjoys sex as much as I do and is willing to push boundaries and try new things with me was one of the best things that has ever happened to my sex life.
This year a few things have changed. Our relationship is now open. We are as committed to each other…