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You Shouldn’t Have to Fake Your Orgasms

You have the right to get off, too.

Ariana
LUSTFUL
4 min readNov 13, 2024

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There is that moment when you’re in bed with someone, and for whatever reason, you know that it’s not going to happen. Naked in bed and maybe things are going well, really well even, but for some reason, whether it’s you or your partner, you know that you are not going to orgasm.

I hate this feeling.

Whether it’s a casual encounter or a long-term relationship, I feel bad when I can’t orgasm. Especially if everything feels good and I’m enjoying myself, and there doesn’t seem to be a reason for it not happening.

Because I don’t want to offend the person I’m with, I usually opt to fake an orgasm. Even though it feels dishonest to fake an orgasm, it always seemed easier than explaining that everything felt good but that I wasn’t going to climax.

It can be a bit of a sticky situation.

I thought not climaxing during sex was normal.

When I was dating my high school boyfriend, I thought it was normal not to have an orgasm. While I knew how to get myself off, he never could seem to hit the right buttons. He also never asked if I was getting off.

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Ariana
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Written by Ariana

I write about sex, love, relationships, and other things I don’t understand.

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