Beauty’s Deceptive

Juang Bhakti Hastyadi
2 min readJun 3, 2024

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We often associate physical beauty with positive personality traits like kindness. A pretty face or fit body makes us assume the person possesses inner beauty as well. However, this connection between outward appearance and inward virtue is misguided and even dangerous.

Beauty is only skin deep — it shows nothing about a person’s true character. Judging someone as kind just because they are attractive is extremely superficial and naive. Beauty could in fact be a mask that hides an ugly disposition

pages of history are filled with extremely attractive individuals who engaged in shockingly cruel and malicious behavior. Notorious figures like Lucrezia Borgia, who was renowned for her beauty, used her physical charms as a lure to entrap and victimize others through exploitation or murder. Similarly, the so-called “black widows” relied heavily on their beauty looks to seduce partners, only to later victimize or kill them.

There are a few potential reasons why beauty and virtue often become disjoined. One is that very attractive people get treated differently from an early age. They receive excessive admiration, indulgence, and sense of entitlement. This can foster arrogance, selfishness, and belief that normal rules don’t apply to them

Thus, we must train our perceptions to penetrate beyond the merely physical. To appreciate beauty’s bountiful forms while recognizing it as wholly distinct from substance of spirit. Lest we find ourselves perpetually ensnared in beauty’s harsh paradigm — mistaking the alluring visage for the comforting essence it so skillfully impersonates yet ultimately refutes.

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Juang Bhakti Hastyadi

Space enthusiast with a profound love for the cosmos and all its wonders