Knowing the Importance of competence and showing resilience.

Sibi Aadharsh
Make Your Miracle
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4 min readAug 4, 2018

When I was studying class 7;our class had the consistent performers in every assessment capable of producing highest pass percentage.We didn’t have time to make relationships,free from addictions yet our staffs encouraged to do a science project to be displayed on science exhibition.Our batch was fortunate to have such supporting staffs are vital in both academic performance of a candidate,extra and co-curricular activites.Never pushed us so hard(A1 performers) and persuade someone who is slow to understand the concept.vitality of institution had a purposeful existence of our lives.Going to school never a mundane feeling and waited for the final bell;Though we are bookmarks to improve the marks secured ahead of our friends.This was the mindset -Learning and reproducing.Upto class10 there was nothing holding us back to secure a 1st group.

Last-Leg in school life

Switched to a new school;new feels,fresh starts;sobbing on fond memories of 7years with that enlightened and all-time pumped bunch.it doesn’t take much time to settle,so free to mingle with mates.I do mingle with all groups of my class but prefer joining with my comfort mates who had a similar mindset .The reason I distance myself with other groups;they treat new guy in a group to do their home-works,some even coerce to tie their shoe lays,carry their school bags till the main gate;Restroom fights for loving his EX,that place was our magistrate court taking on our peers ;the mere reason of the clash is to restore the pride of oneself;teach him a lesson;Those days were a major throwback ;if these events were not planned;i would not have anything to look back of my school life.

All set for High school graduation exam,last days in uniform

School,Coaching Centre,Teachers,Exam,cutoff marks was all need to get a seat in top 10 engineering colleges.Proud results,sobbing cherished moments in new School,slam books,Terrace farewell.School life is done and dusted.Scintillating memories are still fresh in my mind.

Varsity life

High on Adrenaline,enthusiast and excited to experience my college.Transition period-where originality &personal conduct is reflected in labour market,new surroundings gathering from different schools;different insights;having taken a IT major;heading to no-where in my initial phase of college ;not in the race anymore,deviation from track;merely enjoying everyday evening and weekend movies,late-night web surfing,birthday treat;mass bunks,canteen scenes.Years passed;Attended workshops;organised an events in college symposiums;Half-completed mini project ;should we clear the unit tests or retest,assignments in the rush to clear the no-dues at the end of each semester.This was our class mindset ;2–3 days before preparation to clear semester.”not gaining a knowledge of permanence;Pointless pursuit of 1st two-and a half years ;Third year-Rush to clear arrears to be eligible for attending interviews.Fourth Year-placement started,to get placed in a MNC company was more for a pride to my relatives (OBLIGATION-ought self).However got selected with a good pay in a reputed MNC. Internships,final year project,semester papers,Intra college Culturals,Adieu to college;Glimpse of dance moves;Community feelings;cry moments ;we are not going to get back these days again.

Time to get Enlightened -Responsibility backs on my shoulders.Running out of Ideas &plans on future.

In a battle of Acquiring a skill to make a difference; out to corporate workplace just a month away;Equipping myself with work etiquette;working on English Eloquence;continuous thrive for knowledge acquisition and loads of news&information to have a upper edge in this rat race.What makes me unique&ME time knack of exposing your talents with mental strength and application of mind.Gaining Victory over appetite and achieving success should be an appetizer;least expecting a support system(family/friends) in crunch situations will favour you;sticking to my Day-to-day tasks and getting into the grooves with a fore-sighted approach.

Faring at the Workplace

Knowing the Ground rules and stick fast to it ,Love the work you do.and do it more .”One should learn to bowl spin on flat wickets too”. The stronger and longer the move in the direction of the trend is, the stronger the pullback is likely to be. Understanding sensation and awareness as a phenomenon in its own right requires that we suspend all previous judgements and delve into completely new directions.Shuffling work methodology ; organising your preference of work;shy away,express your concerns;get your doubts cleared;Webinars,live seminars,your pain makes you a believer.performing each move as a kingmaker takes lot of courage at your own will ;”TREND YOUR MOVE”.

Shrewd as a Merchant;Fearless as a warrior;Constant Heart Burns

1.Glue gun
2.Water
3.Some hair gel or food coloring to make different colors
4.Glitter

A Ball filled with water and glitter. When we shake it up, it becomes cloudy and hard to see through. If we take a minute to let the glitter settle, we can clear our minds and be calm and make good decisions.

Everyone in their life at one point has experienced “good” and “bad” emotions but those who have had more “good” than “bad” will display a more positive affect.(Possessing high Subjective well-Being will have high level of life satisfaction.

to Respecting thhttps://positivepsychologyprogram.com/subjective-well-being/#subjective-wellbeing-definitione situation&conditions,being patient,assertive at the same time knowing great things don’t come for those who wait;

A rich, rewarding life often requires a messy battle(DANGAL DANGAL!)with adversity.Get in the Moment&Let the people wonder the magic of your success.

All things possess a fully-developed, intelligent, and complex conscious-like spirit. It is a concept arising more from mythology than philosophy.

Material panpsychism->https://www.iep.utm.edu/panpsych/

Foster Co-existence with large Carnivores! SHOW RESILIENCE from being attacked.

A choice between two different ways of living your life — one where you carried on living the way you do(my school story mindset)but another where your life would be totally changed and transformed(shift the Gears!)

Belief vs Knowledge- https://bit3.org/WP/believe-it-or-not-the-choice-is-yours/

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