Trans women are women and you can take your debate and F&£k right off

Helllooo everyone

I am trans and I have been known to dabble on the interweb now and then. Just casually mind you. A dash of Instagram here, some banking there, a bit of shopping and some Facebook. Maybe even some YouTube.

I also happen to post to Medium. This is where I put my sophisticated and nuanced thoughts into bits and bytes to fly out into the world. Unfortunately I seem to have unintentionally baited my hook with the juiciest of baits that seems to draw in a particularly noxious fish. Well it’s less fish than sentient turd. It seems anything authored by a trans person is a magnet for sentient turds who want to debate the transgenders about everything transsexual.

Let’s take a step back, just a small one. Let’s focus on me for a minute. A little biographical data if you will. I am a trans femme. Like a trans woman, except I only believe in one absolute, that being I am absolutely not male. There is zero male about me. Even that Y chromosome that I think I have is not male, it was merely the genetic inspiration for my feminine penis aka girldick (side note, maybe we can start calling it a Venis, like women are from Venus, some have a vagina and some a venis). Obviously if that’s the only absolute I believe in, then I am prohibited from identifying as anything absolute beyond “Not Male”. Hence trans femme, something that falls under the umbrella of “woman” but is not absolute or stereotypical. So now we have a gender, let’s flesh out the animal a little more shall we. At various times I have been characterized as cantankerous, misanthropic, a foul mouthed bitch, Satan and a few other epithets of a similar nature. Perhaps in my first year of hrt I was demure for a moment but it was a very brief moment. However if you need a feminist to throw a brick, I am your gal. As such, what follows is my view on the “trans debate”

Now let’s address my thinking. Trans women are women and trans men are men. That’s the start and end of the statement. It is profound and needs no caveats, ands, buts, exclusions or addendums. This is the single guiding principle and underpinning of any commentary I have on trans people, their place in society and their genders.

I have penned such nuanced and masterful works such as “the anti trans voices are kinda pathetic”, “trans women in sport and why you can take your basic science and f£&k off” and my personal favorite “terfs have a point, kinda but it’s pointed at the wrong people”. If the titles don’t give it away, the content certainly does. I am not interested in debate. The denial of trans rights is the denial of human rights. The idea that excluding trans women from women’s spaces on the basis of potential harm committed by men also implies that trans women are of a lesser value than cis women and may be sacrificed for the comfort or even safety of the majority. This is a crime against humanity. It’s via these simple implications that I don’t see any need or value for debate on the matter of trans people. There may be a debate to be had on how to facilitate the inclusion of trans men and trans women into sports, etc. But that is a conversation for professionals, scientists and doctors, not Joe Bloggs online who has F%¤k all idea about hrt, transition or even trans people.

Similarly, I don’t feel the need to discuss how and why trans people exist. I don’t see any value in discussing “any man who feels/thinks/believes he is a woman must now be treated like a woman”. I am truly uninterested in whatever opinion some uninformed cockwomble has. I am only interested in my doctor who prescribed me HRT because they believe I am trans and the government that officially recognizes I fit best into the legal category of woman. I have zero affection or time for the yeasty codpiece who wants me to justify my existence and rights because of the view they hold that “the onus is on trans people to convince society”. And lets not forget that terf who decided to tell me that she is a matriarch and a protector of women but that sex workers are male adjacent as they are tools of the patriarchy. Lady, y’all a f£%king bigot who hides behind tie dye, peace signs and the infinite yoni.

Oh and black people who write those hardcore black liberation posts (That I completely agree with) but then turn around and say trans women are men pretending to be women and destroying women’s sports and other bigotted rubbish like I mentioned above. I can’t change that I am trans, in the same way you can’t change you are black. The rules the IAAF and the IOC uses against trans people are the same rules they use against black women in sport. The people today that are writing laws against us, were the same people that opposed your integration into society and that still protect systemic racism in society. You make yourself hypocrites when you stand against us. When you said BLM, you made an excellent point. I am ashamed that in 2022 that BLM is still relevant and required. In fact all white people should be ashamed that black people need to protest and remind us that Black Lives Matter. We, white people, should have been on the anti racist wagon long long ago. I am truly sorry that I wasn’t as vocal and militant about it as I am now. I have taken Black Lives Matter to heart, it is now the turn of anti trans black people to take Trans Lives Matter to heart as well. Racism is not some special brand of injustice reserved for black people, it is merely one facet of the prejudice and hate boot the marginalized suffer under.

(No white people reading this, black people are not racists. There is no reverse racism or reverse apartheid. They are just tired of your shit and have been called the “n” word, shot, denied healthcare and opportunity and hurt enough to treat any interaction they have with you with caution, suspicion and anger. I know, because I feel the same caution and fatigue, luckily I have only felt it for a few years. Black people have never not known it)

In closing, we are trans, we are legion and we will assume our rightful place in society and you can take your debate and Fuck Right Off.

PS. Before you write it, ask yourself “is Queer Kari going to tell me the F&%k off?” and if she is, stop typing and please feel free to F%¤K right the F#/K Off, Post F)&king Haste.