Why Simon Sinek is fundamentally wrong

Unless you’ve been living under a rock, you’ll have heard of Simon Sinek. He took the business world by storm in 2009 with his lecture, ‘How Great Leaders Inspire Action’. This became the 3rd most-watched TED talk of all time. In it, he unveiled his ‘Golden Circle’ with ‘Why’ at its heart. His book ‘Start with Why’ became a best-seller and his views were widely accepted by companies across the globe. An obsession with ‘Purpose’ began.

It is now a mainstream belief that businesses with a strong idea of their core purpose prosper. Other writers have developed this concept, such as David Hieatt in his book ‘Do Purpose — Why Brands with a Purpose Do Better and Matter More’. This is a belief I share. There’s no arguing with the importance of purpose. As MD of two tech companies that grew from zero to £30 million in just 5 years, I’ve seen with my own eyes the difference it can make to a business.

But where I disagree fundamentally with Sinek is his central message of ‘starting with why’. This isn’t where you should start at all.

What’s the thrust of Sinek’s message?

Sinek set out to discover why companies like Apple achieved such extraordinary success while others, with the same resources, failed. He found that less successful companies often started with ‘What’, then moved to ‘How’ and many neglected to even mention ‘Why’. Some hadn’t the faintest clue why they did what they did.

In Sinek’s opinion, the reason Apple was so successful was it started with ‘Why’. This was at the core of Apple’s marketing (pardon the pun!) and the driving force behind its business operations. As a result, he says, Apple was able to attract customers who shared its fundamental beliefs.

From this, he designed his ‘Golden Circle’ theory of building strategy.

All well and good, but I think there’s something missing here. Apple dominates the global handset market by capturing 66% of industry profits and 32% of the overall handset revenue. But crucially, they weren’t trying to sell a smartphone to everyone. They are targeting a tight group of customers for whom the Apple ecosystem is part of their self-worth and their projection to the world.

When Steve Jobs returned and created the world-famous ‘Think Different’ campaign, Apple products were not the best. In fact, they were a bit shit. But Apple had identified a sub-set of people — creatives, misfits, dreamers — for whom owning a Mac said something about the sort of off-the-wall people they wanted to be. To my mind, this proves that you can’t have a ‘why’ unless you know ‘who’ your ‘why’ is going to appeal to.

Start with ‘Who’ not ‘Why’

Whilst the Golden Circle of ‘Why’, ‘How’ and ‘What’ is important, I think it’s missing something even more fundamental. A fourth circle — ‘Who’ — at the very centre. This is where I believe you should start.

Surely your over-arching goal is to build a successful commercial enterprise? Well, I don’t think you can do this starting with ‘Why’. Contrast Sinek’s view of strategy with that of Jim Collins — another great business author and speaker. His ‘Hedgehog Concept’ is something I refer to over and over again with my clients. He believes that a successful strategy is formed from overlapping 1) What you are deeply passionate about (your ‘Why’) with 2) what you can be best at in the world and 3) what best drives your economic engine. It’s this third point that’s missing from Sinek’s viewpoint. The commercial imperative that should drive every business.

Back in 1954, the sage-like grandfather of modern business, Peter Drucker, said, ‘There is only one valid definition of a business purpose: to create a customer’. I think this still holds true and yet many companies struggle to understand this fundamental concept. There’s little point finding your meaning for existence and working out what you’re going to do, and how, if this doesn’t appeal to the right customers.

And yet this happens time and again. The CEO is on a mission but his company’s customers are leaving in droves. They don’t care. Disaster can strike when there’s no clear idea about Core Customer. Take Chip Wilson, ex-CEO of Lululemon. His fat-shaming remarks about Lululemon’s yoga pants were a PR catastrophe for the company. He’d lost his grip on who his core customers were and, worse still, ended up insulting a good many of them. The company has never truly recovered.

Finding your ‘Who’

Ultimately, you’re trying to create a tribe that love what you do and feel like they belong when they experience your company for the first time. I believe this should start with your staff. First and foremost, do your employees feel like they’re in the right place? And then, do your existing customers feel happy they made the right choice by picking your company? Only after you’ve got these two elements right will you attract new customers.

This is a different way of approaching marketing. Too often, the focus is on attracting new people through the door and then, when they arrive, losing them because everything’s not quite in sync. Don’t build a recruitment process that attracts the wrong people. They’ll leave after a few months because your company is different from the expectation you created.

To build a tribe of customers, you need to get laser-focused on who these people are. Your guiding principle should be, ‘Who are the customers that will buy from us at maximum profit?’ Most of the time, my clients don’t have this. Since they started trading, they’ve attracted a broad array of customers, all looking for different things. This makes it hard to narrow down to the Core Customer that will ultimately drive their growth.

When we get to the nitty-gritty of working out their Core Customer, I guide clients to focus first and foremost on the ones who buy at maximum profit. Perhaps these customers buy the fullest range of services or have the potential to do so. Then we narrow it down to one who best represents the customers they need to target. We give them a name. A recent example is ‘Andrew’. Then we start to profile this customer archetype — what is Andrew trying to do in his business? Does he have a transformational challenge? Maybe he’s an agent of change in his organisation? What insights tell his story? What is his background?

Then I get them to work out how Andrew is likely to buy — and where they fit in this buying journey. Finally, and most importantly, how do they want Andrew to feel when he signs on the dotted line? This is why you need to start with ‘Who’ before working out your ‘Why’. Otherwise, you lose the connection between how you want them to feel when they do business with you and your purpose. These need to interlock.

Creating a niche

A massive lightbulb moment is when clients realise they only need to attract a small number of these Core Customers, maybe 10 or 20, to double their business in the next three years. Brilliant! In the past, their strategy has been focused on average customers. Now, they can tailor their entire approach to the needs of a specific group of Core Customers.

When I was at Peer 1 Hosting, we had 13,400 customers globally but only 500 of these were high value. I worked out we only needed another 100 net annually to achieve our growth plans of doubling in three years. So, we got really focused on who they were and what they needed from us. This had far-reaching consequences — our core values and purpose were aligned around these needs. They guided every decision we made. We looked for staff who shared these values and could ensure our Core Customers knew, liked and trusted us.

If you’re using NPS® (Net Promoter Score), you need to make sure your score is higher for your Core Customer than any of your competitors. This is about being different. You’re not trying to be brilliant for every customer or the biggest or the best. You’ve identified attributes for your business that you know your Core Customer values and by delivering these, you’ll win.

This is how you create a niche. By getting inside the heads of a small number of high-value customers, you’ll own this small segment. Eventually, you will become the number one supplier of your ‘Who’. It’s like mining for a rich vein of gold. Think small, not big, and use a feelings model to get there. This will be way more effective than constantly selling the features and benefits of your product.

So, take my advice. Don’t ignore Simon Sinek entirely. BUT start with ‘Who’ not ‘Why’. By doing this, you’ll find a profitable purpose that drives the economic engine of your business. After all, you’re not just doing this for love. Profit is also important!

Written by business growth coach Dominic Monkhouse. Find out more about him here.




When I’m not coaching CEOs to scale their organisation by taking the mystery out of growth, I’m learning, researching and curating content for entrepreneurs to reach their goals.

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