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All Our Lost Futures: Menopause and Grief

Loving the future that is.

Artwork and Photo by Author

I will never have children
I never wanted children, but now I don’t have that choice
I didn’t want any more children, but still…
I’m not needed as a mother in the same way, which is great, but still…
I will never have periods anymore
My periods were painful and I spent a fortune on sanitary products, but still…
I don’t look as I did, my skin and



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Helen Clare

Helen Clare

Helping you get to grips with peri/ menopause before it gets a grip of you. https://linktr.ee/Helenclare