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Change Is The Only Constant

Midlife change is the existential necessity.

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Change. Everywhere you turn. Change.

I used to cringe at the mention of middle age, thinking of it as a synonym for the turning point ushering in death. In that frame of mind, I tried hard to hold on to the part of me that venerated the younger me.




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