Love

Happy Valentine’s Day, Even if You Hurt My Feelings

Love grows up alongside us

Deb Palmer
Middle-Pause
Published in
6 min readFeb 14, 2024

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Typically we just hang out together on Valentine’s Day — Photo by Author

At first, it hurt my feelings.

Later, I felt sorry for her, not me.

Smiling with shiny, clean teeth, I approached the perky, dewy-skinned, brunette receptionist.

“Let’s get you scheduled for your next visit,” she said. I have one open on — Oh, it’s on Valentine’s Day, but that doesn’t matter to you, right?”

Looking down, I answered, “Not a problem.” I can’t promise my facial expression matched my response.

A tad pissed, and, if I’m honest, a lot hurt, I dragged my tired old bones out to the car. It stings, thinking this is how the world sees me. One look and they assume I am not worthy of love, or at least, not romantic love. This young, lovely woman can’t imagine anyone would call me his Valentine. Maybe it hurt the most because my mirror agrees with her.

Then it hit me —

This fresh, naive young lady, who’ll most likely be treated like a queen on Valentine’s Day, has no clue what love is and is not. Relying on youth, beauty, and sex appeal she’s like a damsel in distress, tied to the railroad tracks, unaware the train approaches at full speed.

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Deb Palmer
Middle-Pause

Author & Freelance Storyteller — Sweeping humor and gut-wrenching truth from under the rug —