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Is Blame, Shame, or Guilt Ever Useful?

And why we need to talk about all three.

Have you ever blamed your parents? I have. Sometimes it was warranted; other times, it was not.

Writing my memoir has taught me to consider doing less blaming and more empathizing— for both myself and them.



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Cindy Heath

I’ve been a farmer, homesteader, entrepreneur, and more. Always curious and still hopeful. If you are, too, read along and follow me at cindyheathwrites.com.