My Long-Time Conservative Mother Broke Up with Her Boyfriend Because He Said VP Harris Slept Her Way to the Top

How statements like these undercut the achievements of women everywhere

Julie Calidonio
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Selfie of the author and her mother.
Photo of my mother and me by Julie Calidonio.

I grew up in a conservative household. My mother spent her thirties and forties driving around in a car with a Pro-Life license plate, which makes the below event even more surprising.

“I broke up with my boyfriend,” my sixty-nine-year-old mother said a few weeks ago.

“You did?” I asked. When my mother first started dating during the pandemic, she went through men-like matches, but this boyfriend had been a constant for a couple of years. “Why?” I pressed.

She thumbed her phone and averted my gaze.

“He said Vice-President Harris slept her way to the top, and I kinda lost my sh*t on him,” she said.

Those were her exact words. When my mother feels passionate about something, there’s no holding her back. My three sisters and I know that with certainty. I gulped.

“You did,” I said.

“I just couldn’t believe he would say something so asinine. It’s one thing to disagree with her policies. That I can respect, but to undermine her achievements. She’s a law school graduate…

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