Mental Health

Waiting for the Day Saggy Skin and Chin Hairs Become Vogue

Conversations with my mirror

Deb Palmer
Middle-Pause
Published in
5 min readAug 4, 2024

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antique mirror that reads- shut up
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Here’s a great first line for a senior romance novel —

He gazed between her crow’s feet, taking her blue-veined hand in his, proclaiming his adoration for her lovely chin hairs.

I’m ashamed of the conversations I have with my mirror.

Me: Holy cow! What the heck is that?

Mirror: Hey, I’m just doing my job.

Me: A warning would have been nice.

Mirror: I show you every day, dear.

To others, I pretend not to care. Does that make me a fraud? When forty- and fifty-somethings fret over a gray hair, a wrinkle, an extra pound, I tell them what I wish I could believe:

One day, sooner than you think, you’ll look back, laugh at yourself, realizing in the grand scheme of life, you shouldn’t have given a rat’s butt about it.

You see, I want ALL women to know and own their beauty. God outdid himself when He created woman, planning every complicated curve and dimple. We are amazing! My core knows this; it’s in between my ears where this gets muddled.

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Deb Palmer
Middle-Pause

Author & Freelance Storyteller — Sweeping humor and gut-wrenching truth from under the rug —