THE YOU EXPERIENCE

Improve Conversations by Matching the Energy of Others

How do others experience you? You have the power to match or adapt to the energy of a room or conversation, which can make you unstoppable.

Mike Curtis
The You Design System
4 min readSep 30, 2020

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Soft skills matter, and we’re not talking about them enough. This series explores real-life situations and practical examples of techniques you can apply right away to design how others experience you.

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The Energy You Put Off

Maybe you’ve never thought about it before, but you put off your own level of social energy, and it can make or break your ability to interact and feel confident in a social setting.

On any given day, you bring high or low energy into social situations. Along with the level of energy, you bring a type of energy as well — positive or negative. Together, the energy combinations are commonly seen in these four areas:

  • High positive energy
  • High negative energy
  • Low positive energy
  • Low negative energy

The combination of energy you bring to a conversation with a friend or to an important meeting is determined by various factors in your…

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Mike Curtis
The You Design System

Senior UX Designer / New articles weekly on design & self-improvement / Helping you design the "UX of You" / 22+ years in design, marketing, & sales.