Millennials and the Quest for Homeownership: Is It Still Possible?

Robert Savar
Millennial Money Matters
16 min readSep 10, 2024

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Overcoming Financial Barriers with Creativity, Determination, and New Perspectives

by Bob Savar, Millennial Financial Times

Millennials and the Quest for Homeownership: Is It Still Possible?

Buying a house: it’s a goal that once seemed as quintessential as getting a driver’s license or starting a family. Yet, this dream feels increasingly out of reach for millions of Millennials. Many ask, “Will I ever have enough money to buy a house?” It’s a question filled with anxiety, frustration, and a flicker of hope that refuses to die. Let’s dive into this problem and explore what might be possible — with a few unexpected twists along the way.

The Struggle Is Real — But You’re Not Alone

Imagine this: you’ve done everything “right.” You went to college, got a job, and perhaps even started saving a little here and there. But every time you check your savings against the skyrocketing real estate prices, the gap seems to widen. You’re not alone. Data reveals that Millennials are buying homes later in life compared to previous generations — if at all. It’s easy to feel like you’re swimming against a relentless tide of student debt, stagnant wages, and a soaring cost of living.

But here’s where the story takes a turn: you have the power to rewrite the script. The narrative doesn’t have to end with giving up on homeownership. More Millennials are buying homes today than you might think — often in surprising ways. How? Let’s find out.

What’s Holding Us Back?

Before diving into the solutions, it’s essential to understand the barriers. Millennials are dealing with unprecedented financial challenges. Over 40% have student debt, and the average student loan balance is over $30,000. Housing prices have skyrocketed, particularly in urban centers with abundant job opportunities. Combine this with an economy that has seen two major recessions in a little over a decade, and it’s no wonder that saving for a down payment feels like an uphill battle.

However, these statistics tell a deeper story — one that challenges us to rethink our perspectives on money, investing, and even homeownership itself.

Reframing the Dream: A New Path to Homeownership

It’s time to shift the narrative from despair to determination. While the barriers are significant, so are the opportunities. Millennials are redefining what homeownership looks like, whether exploring more affordable cities, taking advantage of first-time homebuyer programs, or even considering unconventional housing options like tiny homes or co-buying with friends or family.

Many Millennials are finding innovative ways to turn the odds in their favor. For example, consider the story of Sarah and John. Sarah and John were in their early 30s, working hard in a bustling metropolitan city. They had decent salaries but were also weighed down by student loans and living expenses that seemed to rise faster than their paychecks. They dreamed of owning a home, a place to call their own, but every time they checked the listings in their city, the prices felt like a punch to the gut.

One evening, after another conversation about their stagnant savings and the high cost of housing, Sarah decided to challenge the status quo. “What if we don’t have to buy a house here?” she asked. John looked at her, puzzled at first, but then he saw the glint in her eyes. That night, they began researching smaller, lesser-known cities, places they’d never considered. They combed through countless articles, blog posts, and YouTube videos, exploring cities where home prices hadn’t spiraled out of control.

A few weeks later, they stumbled upon a town a few hours away. It was far from the urban hubbub they were used to, but it had its charm — cobblestone streets, friendly locals, and a tight-knit community spirit. Most importantly, the houses were within their budget. On a whim, they took a weekend trip to see it themselves.

Walking down the main street, they felt something they hadn’t felt in a while: possibility. They toured a quaint, two-story fixer-upper that was filled with potential — and a lot of quirks. The roof needed work, the paint was peeling, and the kitchen seemed stuck in the 1970s. But it was on a spacious plot, with an old oak tree in the backyard that seemed to whisper, “This could be home.”

With excitement and a bit of trepidation, they decided to take a leap of faith. Instead of waiting for a perfect financial picture or until the market “calmed down” — something they’d been told for years would never happen — they invested in that little fixer-upper. They didn’t have much experience with renovation, but they were determined to learn.

The first few months were tough. They spent weekends covered in dust and paint, watching YouTube tutorials on installing cabinets and refinishing hardwood floors. But there were also moments of joy — like the first time they hosted a backyard barbecue under that oak tree or when they painted their bedroom a warm, calming shade of blue, a color they had picked out together.

Slowly, their hard work began to pay off. The house started to feel like theirs, not just because they owned it but because they had poured their sweat, time, and love into every corner. The town welcomed them with open arms, and they found themselves forming connections they hadn’t experienced in the big city. As the housing market in the surrounding areas continued to rise, their little fixer-upper also began to appreciate in value.

Looking back, Sarah and John realized that taking a chance on an unconventional choice was their best decision. They didn’t just buy a house; they built a home — a place filled with memories, growth, and a renewed sense of hope for the future. In doing so, they found that homeownership wasn’t just about having enough money; it was about having enough courage to chart their own course.

Or think of Emily, age 29, a creative soul with a passion for writing and an eye for design. She had spent most of her twenties in a small, rented apartment in a vibrant urban neighborhood full of cafes, art galleries, and the hum of city life. She loved her neighborhood — the late-night poetry readings, the farmers’ markets, the quirky shops. It felt like home. But despite her deep affection for the area, she couldn’t ignore the harsh reality that her rent kept rising, while her dream of buying a place of her own seemed to slip further out of reach with each passing year.

One rainy afternoon, as she sat by her window, watching raindrops race down the glass, Emily scrolled through a community forum online. She wasn’t looking for anything in particular, just passing the time, when she stumbled upon a post about a local community land trust (CLT). The post explained that the trust was designed to help people like her — those who loved their neighborhoods but were priced out of traditional homeownership.

Intrigued, she clicked through and read more. A community land trust, it explained, was a nonprofit organization that acquires and holds land for the benefit of the community. Instead of selling the land on the open market, the CLT made homes on that land affordable by removing the cost of the land itself from the price of the house. The more she read, the more intrigued she became. This was a model she had never heard of, one that promised to keep housing affordable and within reach for people like her.

Determined to learn more, Emily attended a meeting hosted by the CLT. She was nervous, unsure of what to expect. As she walked into the room, she noticed it was filled with people from all walks of life — young professionals, artists, teachers, single parents, retirees — all sharing the same hope: to find a way to stay in the community they loved. As the meeting progressed, she heard stories that echoed her own, stories of people who had felt trapped by soaring housing costs but had found a path to homeownership through the trust.

Emily left that meeting feeling a sense of hope she hadn’t felt in years. She applied to join the CLT and was accepted after a few months. She was paired with a small, charming bungalow that needed some TLC, nestled on a quiet street but still close to all the places she loved. The house wasn’t perfect; the paint was chipped, the kitchen was outdated, and the yard had been neglected for years. But it had character potential and, most importantly, was within her budget.

The moment she stepped through the front door, she felt something stir inside her. This could be hers — a place she could call home, not just for a year or two, but for the long term. She leaped and bought the house, knowing that the CLT’s unique model would keep it affordable, even as the market fluctuated.

The first few months were challenging but rewarding. Emily spent weekends sanding floors, repainting walls, and turning the overgrown backyard into a little oasis with a vegetable garden and a small patio where she could write in the mornings. She made the house her own, piece by piece, with every brushstroke and every plant she added to her garden. And as she did, she felt a deep sense of satisfaction knowing that she wasn’t just renting a place for a while — she was building her future.

Her neighbors welcomed her with open arms, and she quickly became part of the community she had always loved. She started hosting potlucks, joined the neighborhood book club, and even organized a small street art festival. Her bungalow became a gathering spot filled with laughter, creativity, and the warm sense of belonging she had always craved.

Emily’s story became one of hope and resilience. She proved that with a bit of creativity and willingness to explore alternative paths, homeownership wasn’t just a distant dream but a reality. The community land trust had given her a chance to stay in the place she loved, build a home, and shape a future on her own terms.

Now, she smiles whenever she sits on her little patio with a cup of coffee, surrounded by the life she’s built. Emily knows she has taken a less traveled path; in doing so, she has found a house and a true sense of home.

Taking Action: What Can You Do Today?

There’s no better time than now to start planning your path toward homeownership. Here are three steps to kickstart your journey:

  1. Explore New Locations: Don’t limit yourself to high-cost cities. Consider emerging markets where prices are still manageable and opportunities are growing.
  2. Leverage Resources: Look into first-time homebuyer programs, grants, and low-interest loans designed to help Millennials break into the market.
  3. Think Creatively: Could a fixer-upper be your key to a more affordable entry? Could co-buying with a friend or relative make more sense for you? Or could a smaller home or condo provide a manageable start?

Don’t Just Dream — Act

The truth is that buying a house may be more complex for Millennials than it was for past generations. Yet, this challenge also has a silver lining: it’s pushing a generation to think differently, be more resourceful, and ultimately redefine what success and homeownership mean.

So, will Millennials ever have enough money to buy a house? The answer is complex, but one thing is sure: it’s not impossible. With creativity, determination, and a willingness to explore new paths, the dream of homeownership can still be within reach.

Your story — like Sarah’s, John’s, or Emily’s — could inspire others to believe, adapt, and persevere. It’s time to share your journey, start new conversations, and redefine what’s possible together. Because the dream isn’t dead; it’s evolving. And it’s up to you to decide how this story unfolds.

Buying a house: it’s a goal that once seemed as quintessential as getting a driver’s license or starting a family. Yet, this dream feels increasingly out of reach for millions of Millennials. Many ask, “Will I ever have enough money to buy a house?” It’s a question filled with anxiety, frustration, and a flicker of hope that refuses to die. Let’s dive into this problem and explore what might be possible — with a few unexpected twists along the way.

The Struggle Is Real — But You’re Not Alone

Imagine this: you’ve done everything “right.” You went to college, got a job, and perhaps even started saving a little here and there. But every time you check your savings against the skyrocketing real estate prices, the gap seems to widen. You’re not alone. Data reveals that Millennials are buying homes later in life compared to previous generations — if at all. It’s easy to feel like you’re swimming against a relentless tide of student debt, stagnant wages, and a soaring cost of living.

But here’s where the story takes a turn: you have the power to rewrite the script. The narrative doesn’t have to end with giving up on homeownership. More Millennials are buying homes today than you might think — often in surprising ways. How? Let’s find out.

What’s Holding Us Back?

Before diving into the solutions, it’s essential to understand the barriers. Millennials are dealing with unprecedented financial challenges. Over 40% have student debt, and the average student loan balance is over $30,000. Housing prices have skyrocketed, particularly in urban centers with abundant job opportunities. Combine this with an economy that has seen two major recessions in a little over a decade, and it’s no wonder that saving for a down payment feels like an uphill battle.

However, these statistics tell a deeper story — one that challenges us to rethink our perspectives on money, investing, and even homeownership itself.

Reframing the Dream: A New Path to Homeownership

It’s time to shift the narrative from despair to determination. While the barriers are significant, so are the opportunities. Millennials are redefining what homeownership looks like, whether exploring more affordable cities, taking advantage of first-time homebuyer programs, or even considering unconventional housing options like tiny homes or co-buying with friends or family.

Many Millennials are finding innovative ways to turn the odds in their favor. For example, consider the story of Sarah and John. Sarah and John were in their early 30s, working hard in a bustling metropolitan city. They had decent salaries but were also weighed down by student loans and living expenses that seemed to rise faster than their paychecks. They dreamed of owning a home, a place to call their own, but every time they checked the listings in their city, the prices felt like a punch to the gut.

One evening, after another conversation about their stagnant savings and the high cost of housing, Sarah decided to challenge the status quo. “What if we don’t have to buy a house here?” she asked. John looked at her, puzzled at first, but then he saw the glint in her eyes. That night, they began researching smaller, lesser-known cities, places they’d never considered. They combed through countless articles, blog posts, and YouTube videos, exploring cities where home prices hadn’t spiraled out of control.

A few weeks later, they stumbled upon a town a few hours away. It was far from the urban hubbub they were used to, but it had its charm — cobblestone streets, friendly locals, and a tight-knit community spirit. Most importantly, the houses were within their budget. On a whim, they took a weekend trip to see it themselves.

Walking down the main street, they felt something they hadn’t felt in a while: possibility. They toured a quaint, two-story fixer-upper that was filled with potential — and a lot of quirks. The roof needed work, the paint was peeling, and the kitchen seemed stuck in the 1970s. But it was on a spacious plot, with an old oak tree in the backyard that seemed to whisper, “This could be home.”

With excitement and a bit of trepidation, they decided to take a leap of faith. Instead of waiting for a perfect financial picture or until the market “calmed down” — something they’d been told for years would never happen — they invested in that little fixer-upper. They didn’t have much experience with renovation, but they were determined to learn.

The first few months were tough. They spent weekends covered in dust and paint, watching YouTube tutorials on installing cabinets and refinishing hardwood floors. But there were also moments of joy — like the first time they hosted a backyard barbecue under that oak tree or when they painted their bedroom a warm, calming shade of blue, a color they had picked out together.

Slowly, their hard work began to pay off. The house started to feel like theirs, not just because they owned it but because they had poured their sweat, time, and love into every corner. The town welcomed them with open arms, and they found themselves forming connections they hadn’t experienced in the big city. As the housing market in the surrounding areas continued to rise, their little fixer-upper also began to appreciate in value.

Looking back, Sarah and John realized that taking a chance on an unconventional choice was their best decision. They didn’t just buy a house; they built a home — a place filled with memories, growth, and a renewed sense of hope for the future. In doing so, they found that homeownership wasn’t just about having enough money; it was about having enough courage to chart their own course.

Or think of Emily, age 29, a creative soul with a passion for writing and an eye for design. She had spent most of her twenties in a small, rented apartment in a vibrant urban neighborhood full of cafes, art galleries, and the hum of city life. She loved her neighborhood — the late-night poetry readings, the farmers’ markets, the quirky shops. It felt like home. But despite her deep affection for the area, she couldn’t ignore the harsh reality that her rent kept rising, while her dream of buying a place of her own seemed to slip further out of reach with each passing year.

One rainy afternoon, as she sat by her window, watching raindrops race down the glass, Emily scrolled through a community forum online. She wasn’t looking for anything in particular, just passing the time, when she stumbled upon a post about a local community land trust (CLT). The post explained that the trust was designed to help people like her — those who loved their neighborhoods but were priced out of traditional homeownership.

Intrigued, she clicked through and read more. A community land trust, it explained, was a nonprofit organization that acquires and holds land for the benefit of the community. Instead of selling the land on the open market, the CLT made homes on that land affordable by removing the cost of the land itself from the price of the house. The more she read, the more intrigued she became. This was a model she had never heard of, one that promised to keep housing affordable and within reach for people like her.

Determined to learn more, Emily attended a meeting hosted by the CLT. She was nervous, unsure of what to expect. As she walked into the room, she noticed it was filled with people from all walks of life — young professionals, artists, teachers, single parents, retirees — all sharing the same hope: to find a way to stay in the community they loved. As the meeting progressed, she heard stories that echoed her own, stories of people who had felt trapped by soaring housing costs but had found a path to homeownership through the trust.

Emily left that meeting feeling a sense of hope she hadn’t felt in years. She applied to join the CLT and was accepted after a few months. She was paired with a small, charming bungalow that needed some TLC, nestled on a quiet street but still close to all the places she loved. The house wasn’t perfect; the paint was chipped, the kitchen was outdated, and the yard had been neglected for years. But it had character potential and, most importantly, was within her budget.

The moment she stepped through the front door, she felt something stir inside her. This could be hers — a place she could call home, not just for a year or two, but for the long term. She leaped and bought the house, knowing that the CLT’s unique model would keep it affordable, even as the market fluctuated.

The first few months were challenging but rewarding. Emily spent weekends sanding floors, repainting walls, and turning the overgrown backyard into a little oasis with a vegetable garden and a small patio where she could write in the mornings. She made the house her own, piece by piece, with every brushstroke and every plant she added to her garden. And as she did, she felt a deep sense of satisfaction knowing that she wasn’t just renting a place for a while — she was building her future.

Her neighbors welcomed her with open arms, and she quickly became part of the community she had always loved. She started hosting potlucks, joined the neighborhood book club, and even organized a small street art festival. Her bungalow became a gathering spot filled with laughter, creativity, and the warm sense of belonging she had always craved.

Emily’s story became one of hope and resilience. She proved that with a bit of creativity and willingness to explore alternative paths, homeownership wasn’t just a distant dream but a reality. The community land trust had given her a chance to stay in the place she loved, build a home, and shape a future on her own terms.

Now, she smiles whenever she sits on her little patio with a cup of coffee, surrounded by the life she’s built. Emily knows she has taken a less traveled path; in doing so, she has found a house and a true sense of home.

Taking Action: What Can You Do Today?

There’s no better time than now to start planning your path toward homeownership. Here are three steps to kickstart your journey:

  1. Explore New Locations: Don’t limit yourself to high-cost cities. Consider emerging markets where prices are still manageable and opportunities are growing.
  2. Leverage Resources: Look into first-time homebuyer programs, grants, and low-interest loans designed to help Millennials break into the market.
  3. Think Creatively: Could a fixer-upper be your key to a more affordable entry? Could co-buying with a friend or relative make more sense for you? Or could a smaller home or condo provide a manageable start?

Don’t Just Dream — Act

The truth is that buying a house may be more complex for Millennials than it was for past generations. Yet, this challenge also has a silver lining: it’s pushing a generation to think differently, be more resourceful, and ultimately redefine what success and homeownership mean.

So, will Millennials ever have enough money to buy a house? The answer is complex, but one thing is sure: it’s not impossible. With creativity, determination, and a willingness to explore new paths, the dream of homeownership can still be within reach.

Your story — like Sarah’s, John’s, or Emily’s — could inspire others to believe, adapt, and persevere. It’s time to share your journey, start new conversations, and redefine what’s possible together. Because the dream isn’t dead; it’s evolving. And it’s up to you to decide how this story unfolds.

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Robert Savar
Millennial Money Matters

Bob Savar, retired pickleball instructor, author, and former CEO, mentors millennials on finance and writes a newsletter called Millennial Financial Times.