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Why It Took Until My 40s To Get Where I Wanted to Be

I cleared these 3 hurdles

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It took until my 40s to get where I wanted to be in life. That’s a ridiculously long time. Some of us are slow bloomers. If you’re like me, the first step is to take a look at why.

  • You’re clueless about where to start?
  • You’re hoping someone else will tell you what to do?




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Kelly Eden

Kelly Eden

Award-winning essayist, New Zealand rainforest dweller, owner of too many writing craft books. Become a word nerd too https://kellyeden.medium.com/membership

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