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4 Subtle Signs of a Person’s True Character
Watch out for these traits and characteristics to tell if someone is worth your time and energy
I was reading a book called “What Happened to Lani Garver” by Carol Plum-Ucci when a line instantly grabbed my attention:
“If you can understand human behavior, it can’t hurt you nearly as much.”
It felt like a strong sign telling me to change — I sucked at knowing people’s hideous intentions. Their charming personalities would often trick me into overlooking the red flags waving in front of my face.
I would give them the benefit of the doubt and trust them until they’d inevitably betray me.
That’s why I took that line very seriously.
Learning to decipher people’s actions allows you to trust them more fully. In a world where not everyone can be counted on, it’s important to watch out for subtle signs that can help you identify people of great character.
It can also save you from the mental trauma of being cheated on and become more confident while investing in relationships or professional partnerships.
From the psychology books I read, documentaries, videos, and TED talks I watched about…
