5 Dating Dogmas That Can Make You Miserable

From a female’s perspective.

Zita Fontaine
Mar 15, 2020 · 9 min read
Illustration by Matt Sandrini

1. You Have to Date All the Time

Being single is not inferior to being partnered, therefore dating all the time isn’t a must.

2. Online Dating is the Ultimate Way to Find a Partner

3. You Have to Date People Within Your ‘League’

4. You Need to Know What You are Looking For

5. You Have to Play Games if You Want to Succeed

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