How a Voice From the Past Taught Me To Create a Life By Design, and Not Default

The good news and the bad news about creating your own destiny.

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The Speaker Began On a Positive Note

“And what does our society promise you in return? “

“Part of my purpose in being here today is to tell you about one of those surprises…

‘I’ve got some good news and some not-so-good news.’

“You’ll realize much of your life didn’t turn out the way you hoped it would.

“The good news?

Most of you don’t have goals.”

“From your perspective, you have all the time in the world to begin building a successful future. But that will change.”

He’s not talking about me. That will never be my situation, my story. I’m smarter than that.’

“So think of my visit today as an intervention.

“It comes down to one simple strategy. Choose someone who has done what you want to do, who has lived the kind of life you want to live, and model their behavior and actions.

“The first step?”

“Then start asking questions”

The Takeaway

There Are No Guarantees in Life

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Mind Cafe

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Roger A. Reid, Ph.D.

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Mind Cafe

Mind Cafe

Relaxed, inspiring essays about happiness.

Roger A. Reid, Ph.D.

Written by

Writer|Host of Success Point 360 Podcast|Tips & strategies on personal development, work, entrepreneurship, productivity, careers — https://SuccessPoint360.com

Mind Cafe

Mind Cafe

Relaxed, inspiring essays about happiness.

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