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How to Get Over the False Promises of Self-Help and Actually Improve

Survivorship bias: If you really want to succeed, take everything with a grain of salt.

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A few years ago, I met up with a friend for a drink. We ordered two beers and started chatting. Always a junkie for the latest fad, he updated me on his last shopping spree.




Relaxed, inspiring essays about happiness.

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Peter Burns

Peter Burns

A curious polymath who wants to know how everything works. Blog: Renaissance Man Journal (http://gainweightjournal.com/).

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