How to Feel (And Seem) Like You Have Your Life Together

#1: Don’t trust your brain.

Sinem Günel
Mind Cafe
Published in
8 min readJun 22, 2020

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We all know a person or two who seem to have their life together all the time.

Their careers seem to be flourishing, they never skip the gym, have a pleasant love life, beautiful hair, and it all just seems so easy.

And then there’s the rest of us: Messing things up, stains on our shirts, messy hair, and endless to-do lists.

Even though there’s no proper definition for “having your life together”, you probably thought of someone particular while opening this post. Maybe of a coworker or a fellow student. Or you thought of someone you can’t even stand, and want to know how they always seem to have their shit together.

Well, the truth is that they probably don’t.

During the past years, I met so many people I’ve been secretly admiring for a long time, and after each meeting or phone call, I had the same thought:

They’re also just humans.

I realized we all have flaws and make mistakes, no matter how perfect our lives might look to the outside. Yet, I also realized there are a few similarities of people who always seem to have their life together. To be like them, focus on the suggestions below.

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Sinem Günel
Mind Cafe

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